Wednesday, October 31, 2007

The Queen’s Chronicles: BLESSING HALLOWEEN

Tonight I will be leading the famous Greenwich Village Halloween Parade with blessings. This is an amazing opportunity to spread positive energy on a very large scale. About 30,000 people walk in the parade and two million will line the parade path. The NYC Halloween Parade is one of the 10 biggest tourist events in the world!

Joining me in this honorable endeavor is my marvelous Blessing Band of wonderful individuals who are deeply earnest in their desire to extend blessings of peace and positive community spirit to New York City.

We will be walking ahead of the parade for the entire route, blessing as we go. We will be dressed all in white an silver to emphasize the purity of our intentions. Since this is not a performance, but a real ritual, we will not be wearing masks or elaborate face paint, as we want our eyes and facial expressions to convey the sincerity of our mission.

Our blessings will be with smudge, or holy smoke, as well as bells, bubbles, glitter and spirited chanting. We will share blessings of peace, blessings of good will, blessings of community, blessings of safety, blessings of protection, and blessings of love.

Please join us in sending out blessings to those who will be in attendance, to all our loved ones, to our cities, to our country, to our world community, and to our precious planet.

Read about this:
http://gothamist.com/2007/10/31/donna_henes_urb.php
http://www.thevillager.com/villager_234/urbanshaman.html

Be blessed!

Tuesday, October 30, 2007

The Queen’s Chronicles: THE QUEEN’S ADVENTURES IN THE SOUTH

I am just back from a two-week trip Through Virginia and North Carolina with The Queen of My Self.

I started with a wonderful workshop at The Creative Healing Institute in Fairfax, VA. Thanks so much to Queen dava money who organized the event and proved herself to be a wonderful hostess. It was an intensely layered day with a group of women who were open and so honest in their sharing.

Then I went on to tour Yogaville with my guides, the lovely Letitia and William Swain. What an amazing spiritual community this is with an extraordinary Lotus Shrine to all the religious faiths in the world. This multicultural, nondenominational tribute was very inspiring and fed my devotion to such eclectic, ecumenical spirituality. Thanks to the Swains for their generous hospitality.

On to the mountains in west of North Carolina. A quick stop in Asheville to sign some books at Malaprop’s Bookstore, then I was back on the road. When I left home, the trees in New York hadn’t started to change yet, but as I climbed into the mountains, I drove right into a Technicolor fall. How gorgeous. The elevation was just high enough to produce fantastic foliage. I followed the winding mountain roads as they snaked in and out of North Carolina, Tennessee and Georgia. Each hairpin turn took me further into the color.

I spent two delightful days with nearly 50 women at their Unitarian Universalist WomenSpirit Institute at The Mountain Retreat Center in Highlands, NC. I was proud to have been chosen the special guest presenter for this, their 20th anniversary gathering. We had an amazing all day workshop, which ended by crowning lots and lots of new Queens, each Queen wearing a crown of her own making. Each woman was more lovely and spirited than the next, and once again I was overwhelmed with just how wonderful we women are.

The last Queen event was in New Bern, NC where Queen Nancy Pocklington hosted a workshop at her massage center. Not only did she gather a great group of women, she served us a fantastic homemade vegetarian banquet. Thanks so much, Nancy. How wonderful to end the trip with this bunch of gals who were profound and piquant and lots of fun.

The trip ended in Washington, DC where I met my collaborator, Daile Kaplan and we spent a day hanging the exhibit that we co-curated called, Daring Dames: A Century of Photographs of Adventurous Women. The show opens on Saturday, November 3 and will be up until June. If you will be in Washington during the next months, do make sure to see it at the National Headquarters of the Society of Woman Geographers at 415 East Capitol Street SE, Washington, DC 20003.
For information and reservations, call 202-546-9228.

So now I am back just in time to lead the world famous Greenwich Village Halloween Parade tomorrow night. I was invited to lead the parade with blessings, which I am delighted and honored to do.

But that is another story…

Thursday, October 11, 2007

The Queen’s Chronicles: WELSH SPIRIT SITES PART 4

The rocks were the central theme of this trip and although I loved them desperately, there were also other inspiring spiritual sites that moved me deeply.

We went to a Maize Maze on the Gower. Though this was not a spiritual site, it was a spiritual experience. We walked up and down paths cut through acres of corn stalks trying to find our way to the center and then back out again. Easier said than done. Blind byways and alleys always led to dead ends. Turn around and try again. Turn around and try again. And again. And again. Until we were completely turned around and disoriented.

I am usually a very patient person, but after a half hour of this, I got very antsy and had a momentary doubt that we’d ever get out. I had never felt claustrophobic before and so I really surprised myself when I panicked. But that is what a spiritual experience does: it allows you to see yourself in new ways.

That night, at the end of a very long day, we walked into a minor miracle. We had driven through several towns and villages looking for a good place to sleep, but we did not find anything very tempting, so we just kept going on hoping to find the perfect B&B. The last town we came to was Burry Port, which was skuzzy and unappealing, but it was getting dark and we were bushed, so we went to the pub that advertised B&B accommodations.

In the bar, I noticed a life size painting of Amelia Earhart and commented on it. Well! It turns out that on her famous transatlantic flight she was supposed to land in Ireland, but she was off course and landed her seaplane in the harbor of this town. She then stayed over in this same pub! The breakfast room was a museum/shrine celebrating her feat and stay in Burry Port. This seemed like such a lucky coincidence. Amelia and I, after all, were/are both members of the esteemed Society of Woman Geographers.

Another place that moved me deeply was Dylan Thomas’ home at Laugharne. His writing studio was in a tiny boathouse the size of a one-car garage, which perched on the edge of a hill overlooking marshland with gorgeous tall fronds of water grass and graceful wading birds. Even though I had never seen pictures of it, I had actually dreamt of this very place the night before. Except in my dream it was my writing studio.

Yet another place that was not a spiritual site inspired my spirit. Castell Henlleys is an archeological dig and reconstruction of an Iron Age settlement from the 6th Century BC. It was so well done and evocative that it was easy to imagine life 8000 years ago and realize how sophisticated it was in its creativity and skilled mastery of material, tool, and technique. Another spot where I felt oddly at home.

Several people suggested that I visit the church at Nevern and I am so glad that I did. Nevern is basically a sign on the road. A pub/inn. A social hall. A house or two. A good salmon fishing river. And the church. The church is early Norman and has a 1000-year old Celtic Cross in the churchyard. The gravestones are grey, worn and covered in lichen. There was a particularly touching tombstone for the 64-year old school marm.

Inside the church, each kneeling bench was covered with a colorful hand-stitched tapestry pillow with a different design drawn from Celtic iconography, made by the church ladies. There were at least 100 of them and they made for a really cheerful, cheer-filled sanctuary.

A river, the Nevern, runs through the churchyard. Along one side of the yard is a stone wall where you can sit and watch the river go by. The churchyard is planted with an amazing variety of some 100 different kinds of flowers and surrounded with ancient holy yew trees. Among these is the famous Nevern Weeping Yew that oozes a bloody red-colored sap. I collected some in a film canister to use in some appropriate future ritual. All in all, this was a very special spiritual site.

We didn’t really see much wild life. Some interesting birds, and that’s all. But there were sheep everywhere. And cows. And some horses, all domesticated. But one day on the moors we came across a pack of wild horses that belonged to nobody. They roamed free. They danced and pranced and scuffled and played on the open moor. They must have been used to people feeding them, because they were quite approachable, though skitterish. The most amazing thing about them was their mane, which was extremely long and wavy. They looked like so many equine Veronica Lakes.

I had been told about a special site called Ty Canol. One woman wrote me that in her opinion it was the most sacred spot on Earth. Well, I had to see this for myself. But that was not easy. I had to find it first. Everyone from the B&B keeper to the post office keeper to the tourist bureau clerk to the park ranger had heard of it. Most had been to it. But everyone told us that they got lost every time they tried to find it. It began to take on a Shangri-La/Brigadoon quality that only made me more dogged in my pursuit. For three days we tracked down leads and faulty directions, to no avail. But I was determined. There is always a test of faith before one is allowed to partake of the sacred.

On our last day in the area we drove up and down and around the maze of roads and dirt tracks that somehow kept us going in circles around where we knew it had to be. Finally a farmer carrying the cutest terrier in his arms came up to the car to ask if we were lost. He told us we were five minutes away and gave us very explicit directions. As soon as I saw the dog, which was the reincarnate spirit of my beloved bud terrier, I knew that this would be it, and that we would get to Ty Canol.

Which we did. In five minutes, just as he said. We parked the car and entered a cattle gate and followed the path up a rise and onto the moor. We walked for quite a distance and passed three large natural rock formations before we got a glimpse of the magic wood. Ty Canol, which means “little house” is the oldest oak forest in Europe.

I always think of oak trees as being mammoth, but these were small and knarled . They looked like giant bonsais. The oak leaves were tiny, only about an inch and a half long. Entering the woods was like crossing into another world, universe, dimension. The floor of the forest was rock strewn and sculptural with crevices, outcroppings, and exposed root systems, all of which was completely covered with a thick carpet of moss. The filtered light reflected the acid green of the moss and permeated the air all around. It was like being in a terrarium. The moss absorbed all sound. The silence was profound.

The ground called to me and I laid down upon it, luxuriantly comfortable on the deep moss mattress. I scattered some of my dear friend Jimmy’s ashes around and thought that this would be the nicest place possible to spend eternity. If ever there was a sacred grove, this was it. And there I was, in this impossibly, breathtakingly gorgeous place, basking in its beauty and power. Soaking up as much of the serene majestic energy of this holy wood as I possibly could.

I did bring back the feeling of that place and a certain longing for it. And also a certain nostalgia for all of the spirit sites and stones, which is why it has been so important to me to document this journey before it fades. Which I have now finally accomplished! I am satisfied and relieved. I have saved my memories from extinction.

And so now, having done so, I can turn my attention once again to the here and now.

Tuesday, October 9, 2007

The Queen’s Chronicles: WELSH SPIRIT SITES PART 3

Heading further west, we spent four days in the town of Newport on the Pembrokeshire coast. Right on a backstreet of the town in a small lot cordoned off behind a fence there was another, bigger, capstone cairn, or dolmen called Carreg Coetan. This one — which was actually balanced on only two of the four standing stones supporting it — stood way taller than me, perhaps nine feet tall. For some reason, I really liked this one the best. I liked the energy. The privacy. The casual demeanor of the place despite its being so close to civilization. There was just something very sweet about it.

The big, famous cromlech, Pentre Ifan, was about 3 miles outside of town. The scale is astounding. And the audacity, skill, and strength of the folks who made it are mind-boggling. The word “big” does not begin to cut it. This thing was, as they say, ginormous. A huge, towering monument. The capstone alone is16-feet long, 8-feet high, and weighs 16 tons. And it is lightly perched on the fist-sized edges of three stones, each about twelve or so feet tall. It takes your breath away.

But, as I said, this site was famous, and a steady stream of people from all over came and went constantly. It was so hard to have to share this experience. I would have wanted some time to be there alone and quiet. What was worse, were the tourist families with kids who made a racket and attempted to climb the steep standing stones. Aaaarggh! “Come on,” I wanted to say. “This is a burial ground. You wouldn’t let your kids run wild and jump all over the tombstones in a cemetery.” But I swallowed my tongue.

Also nearby — well, nearby is a very relative word in Wales. It was nearby on the map. But on the twisting maze of Welsh backcountry lanes, it took forever. Lost again, looking for an ancient stone circle that I knew was hidden in a field right around there somewhere, we tried to find someone to ask but there was no one about. I finally saw a sign for a pottery studio and assuming someone would be there, we turned off the road to inquire. I found someone and don’t you know that the very site we were searching for was right there in the field behind the house!

Gors Fawr, a circle about 70 feet in diameter, is composed of16 low stones. It was way off in the field and hard to see because the stones are so small, only a couple of feet high, and the grass was so high. Not to mention the sheep wandering all about. It was a perfect stone circle day — grey, misty, foggy, drizzly, moody weather. The precipitation made everything seem so intimate plus it insured that there would be no other visitors. That, alone, was a majorly great thing.

On one of the rocks I found an offering made from a y-shaped stick wrapped in sheep wool. It looked very like the yoni amulets that I make.
How strange and how familiar. There was also a scorched circle fire pit in the center. Clearly this ancient ceremonial site is still used for ceremonies. Though much less dramatic than the giant cromlechs, the
energy in this large circle of small stones was palpably sacred.

Just down the road the landscape turned into wild moors. These wide open spaces were wild and windy. In the distance were the Priseli Peaks where the bluestone for Stonehenge was quarried. Imagine that feat. Cutting huge slabs of rock. Hauling them down from the mountains. Carrying them overland and across water for 200 miles — all by hand and back. Then setting them up. How the hell did they manage?

I’ll tell you, all those stones are so energetic that I bet they just walked themselves over to Wilshire County and arranged themselves in a ceremonial sister circle. And whenever no one is looking, they dance!

To be continued…

Sunday, October 7, 2007

The Queen’s Chronicles: WELSH SPIRIT SITES Part 2

Continuing on through southern Wales to the Gower Peninsula... This area had been widely recommended to me, Many thanks to those who sent me there. This area is wilder and less populated than what we had seen so far. But as beautiful as the land was, it was impossible to sightsee from the car. The roads are barely one lane wide and extremely twisty plus we had to drive on the left side, so it was hard to divert attention from the road ahead.

And anyway it would have been impossible to see anything because the roads are all bordered by high hedges that block any view. Now that I write this, I wonder if that was an intentional safety consideration, since it really is crucial to keep your eyes glued straight ahead — or as straight as possible on those pretzel roads.

We found a 5000-year old burial mound, which was about a 20-minute walk from the road. Unfortunately, there was a park ranger taking a cigarette break and his truck was marked right next to the mound, which ruined it both visually and energetically for me. We saw what we could see, but it wasn’t spectacular.

Roselli is a tiny village at the very end of the Gower peninsula. There on a high spot overlooking the sea was St. Mary’s cemetery with an old weathered grey stone cemetery. Of all the places I visited, this one was the most evocative of some long lost memory.
I was so happy wandering around in there. So contented and centered. Was my old past life body buried under the ground there?

At Roselli there is a spectacular walk that snakes along the cliffs on the edge of the peninsula. Every step forward offers a different and more dramatic view of the rocks and the sky and the sea. Sure-footed sheep were grazing the grass up and down and around the steep precipices. The wind was wild and it was quite chilly. It was all quite primal. Elemental.

Another site on Gower was what the locals call King Arthur’s Stone. Again, despite it’s being on the map, there was no way to find it. Finally we stopped in a little post office/liquor store and asked. No one seemed to know where it was, but, of course, someone eventually did. And we there — a pull off of the tiny road, which was busy with loose horses and sheep crossing back and forth and hanging out in the middle.

There were several cars and a few caravans parked right in the middle of a cow pasture. Folks were sitting outside on camp chairs reading the evening paper surrounded by large grazing animals strolling about. One of these guys showed me how to find the stones. They were straight ahead across fields filled with stones and cows and cow paddies and mud puddles.

After a walk of about 15 minutes, the pasture ended suddenly at an overlook. We have reached the end of the world — the edge where rock meets sea. There, just to the left, is a huge egg-shaped rock pile, another ancient burial mound. How beautifully situated as a final resting place. And there, just 100 yards or so away, was the first and smallest of three mushroom-like cromlechs we were to see.

This was a burial chamber, as well, but constructed very differently. Balanced about four feet above the ground — seemingly impossibly — on the tips of three vertical standing stones was an oblong oval capstone as large as a queen size bed. Really, just balanced on three small points. And has stayed balanced for 5500 years. Remarkable. Like all cairn of this type, the whole thing was once covered in earth, the rocks being an armature.

What a wonderful site. Two completely different stone monuments, each incredible in its own way. Wonderful ocean views. Just one group of German tourists who left soon after we arrived. Only a couple of curious cows to interrupt my reverie.

To be continued…

Friday, October 5, 2007

The Queen’s Chronicles: WELSH SPIRIT SITES

Even though my trip to Wales was two months ago, I feel compelled to complete the report of what I saw and felt. This is partly to share my amazing experiences and partly to savor and luxuriate in them once more before I am completely swept away by my current involvements and these precious memories begin to fade.

I went to Wales to try to glimpse a past life that a seer had told me that I had had there and also to see the spirit sites. Although I felt exceedingly comfortable and at home in Wales, I did not experience any intense déjà vu moments. I did not recognize any particular person, place or thing, but everything seemed very familiar to me and many people thought that I was Welsh.

This trip was largely about rocks. I had already made several trips to visit the famous standing stone sites in England, Scotland, and Brittany was looking for more amazing megalithic monuments. And I found them! — with a little help from my far flung email friends who sent me many suggestions to pursue.

First stop, Tintern Abbey. These stone ruins are quite impressive. The grounds are extensive and there are many sections of pathways, walls, arches, chimneys, and courtyards scattered about.

The main cathedral is roofless and floorless, but, by far, the best-preserved abbey ruins that I saw anywhere. Light filtered in through sweeping windowless arches. Birds flew about overhead. The grass inside was a vivid green, thick and soft. The energy was serene and embracing. This is a place to exhale. To release pent up stress and let go of all residual tension. A place of peace.

Even thought the megalithic stone sites are marked on the maps, they are not marked on the roads, so the search for them was truly a magical mystery tour, following the directions of locals and my own instinct. Allowing the stones to pull me in to their world.

The map showed a stone site in the Wye Valley. When we got to the village indicated, I asked directions from an old man who was raking the graves in the churchyard. He was stone deaf, but with some shouting and lots of gesturing, he understood my request and gave me great directions.

And just where he said they would be in the middle of a field hidden behind hedges, were the Three Stones of Trellich. Those three crone stones were just standing patiently where they have stood for millennia, each one leaning toward the others. I was particularly drawn to the middle one and stood with my entire body against her length, my face resting against her surface, which was rough with lichens. She towered over me and emitted a great heat that1 was healing in the extreme.

That was a great site, hidden from the world. No tourists. No people at all. Just the sky and earth and stones. Just steady ancient energy, and a feeling of being weighted, rooted, connected to what really matters.

To be continued…